When should babies have control of their hands?
Around 9 to 12 months of age, babies develop more control over their hands and fingers and may be able to grab small objects with a forefinger and thumb. The brain continues to grow, helping to refine control over the large muscles. By now, your baby will probably be able to crawl and stand.
Should my 12 week old be reaching for toys?
When do babies start reaching for things? Your baby should be reaching for familiar objects by month 4, although some infants may begin reaching — for toys, for the dog and, of course, for their caregivers — by month 3. Soon after your baby masters reaching, you can also expect her to start grabbing objects.
What should a 12 week old baby be doing?

Their grip can seem surprisingly strong and they will be learning to reach and grab objects which interest them. Your baby will be able to kick and extend their legs and may even be trying to put their little feet towards their mouth. Some babies still show signs that they are refluxing at 12 weeks.
How can I get my 3 month old to use his hands?
Ways to encourage your baby’s fine motor development:
- Let them hold your finger from birth.
- Give your baby lots of sensory experiences. Hand lotion, soft/hard toys, different textures.
- Place rattles in their hand.
- Give them lots of tummy time.
- Hang mobiles/toys for them to hit when in pram/cot.
How can I encourage my baby to take hands together?
Baby is bringing his hands together in a clapping motion. How cute! To encourage this position, play a game of patty-cake with your little one, or place a favorite toy or bottle over his chest (his body midline). His hands should move together symmetrically.

Why does my baby not grasp my finger?
A palmar reflex that isn’t integrated by 6 months of age may signal that your baby’s central nervous system (CNS) hasn’t taken enough control for the reflex to become a voluntary movement. It may also indicate spastic cerebral palsy or other damage to your baby’s CNS.
What should a 3 month old be doing developmentally?
Baby Developmental Milestones: By 3 Months
- May raise head and chest while on tummy.
- Opens and shuts hands.
- Pushes down on legs when feet are on a firm surface.
- May swipe at dangling objects and may grasp and shake hand toys.
- Can start to follow moving objects with eyes.
- Recognizes familiar objects and people at a distance.
Why does my 3 month old not open his hands?
“Newborns clench their fists due to a neurologic reflex called palmar grasp. This reflex is activated when something is pushed into a newborn’s palm, like a caregiver’s finger,” Witkin explains. Baby fist clenching is also instinctual. It mirrors the curled position they had in the womb.